I became a big advocate of maintaining a solid sexual reputation after I ran into Amy, a friend of one of my ex-girlfriend's, at a gallery opening last year. She told me Giselle (my ex) only had nice things to say about me.
A few glasses of champagne later, Amy began hinting that it wasn't my cooking skills or music collection that Giselle had been talking up. As the night wore on, it became clear that this girl was hungry to see if I could live up to the hype. We started in the cab on the way back to her place and didn't stop until lunch the next day.
It was a top 10 romp with a gorgeous girl, and my ex indirectly did all the groundwork for me! It became clear to me that spreading the word of my bedroom prowess -- or more to the point, having others spread it for me -- was an untapped source of action.
The problem is that guys who brag about how good they are in bed usually aren't. Kudos to them for at least trying to boost their sexual rep; there are big rewards to be reaped if word gets out. But these guys are going about it all wrong. Be subtle, innovative and resourceful, and you could find yourself saddled with a reputation as a top-shelf lover. And trust me: There are way worse things to be known as.
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Project sexual confidence
Your confidence will speak for itself. That doesn't mean you should grind up against strange women at the bar, but the guy who clams up and blushes when the word "penis" crops up isn't going to come off very smooth.
You can project sexual savvy via certain cues. Women equate abilities on the dance floor with abilities in the sack, so learn some moves. Flailing about like a beached salmon will put the absolute kybosh on any chance of bedding the girl, so if you can't dance, suck it up and take some lessons. It's a fantastic investment, and you'll probably have a ton of fun taking them.
How to make food, clothes, female friends, and your own moves work for you...
Ditto for food: You can convey a certain sensuality in the way you approach eating; that is, with well-mannered relish and enthusiasm. Be adventurous and order food that involves slurping or the tactile experience of eating with your hands. She'll see how talented you are with your tongue and hands and she'll make the assumptions from there.
Finally, dress the part. The girl wearing the microskirt and lace shirt may be nice to look at, but she doesn't leave a lot to the imagination. The same goes for the dude in the wife beater and skin-tight jeans. Wear something stylish and comfortable, but be sure that it "accidentally" floats up while you're dancing and gives her a quick sneak peak at what you've got.
Word of mouth
The power of someone else's word cannot be overstated. Having another person brag about your prowess will do so much more to get you tail than the hottest dance moves ever could.
Ideally, you'll have a female friend creating the buzz about your sexual skills rather than a male friend. It'll be far more effective, as women know that we band together in these kinds of ventures. Your buddy -- his best intentions aside -- could end up squandering your chances.
In either case, the word of mouth needs to be delivered discreetly, and your presence as the motivation behind it needs to be invisible. Play it subtle; don't have your friend blurt out how well endowed you are, but have her casually mention to her friends how your ex won't stop badgering you to maintain a physical relationship.
Deliver the goods
The best route here is the natural one: Build your sexual reputation sincerely, and they will come. Take a look back through my articles for a quick refresher course on what you can do to make it more than just another roll in the hay. Make it memorable enough for her, and she'll pass on her experience to a few of her friends. And they tell five friends, who tell five friends, and so on...
Rock that rep
Soon enough, a fantastic web of ladies will know just how good you are at what you do. From there, it's up to you to reap what you sow. Happy reaping!
